Sex and Relationship Coaching Q & A

We have been receiving huge amounts of mails from individuals and couples, requesting for complimentary advice before signing up for our services, regarding relationships and sexual performance problems and variety of sexual preferences such as: oral sex, anal sex, swing and swap, threesome, sex in public and more.

Questioners wanting to know how they can persuade their wives, husbands, lovers, boyfriends and girlfriends to participate in swing and swap, threesomes and sexual activities in public, as well as performing oral sex and having safe anal sex.

We decided to offer a few an all-inclusive complimentary advices to save time in answering these similar questions mentioned at the above. Keep in mind that sexual and relationship problems are complex issues, which requires comprehensive in-depth examination and analysis. If you are faced with any such issues you should seek help, because if left unresolved it would only make things worse.

A Few Typical Questions:

“My wife refuses to perform oral sex on me. Please let me know how I can motivate her to perform fellatio, even though I have performed oral sex on her many times, helping her in achieving orgasm. She refuses to have anal intercourse as well, how can I encourage her to allow me these sexual pleasures?”

“My husband is been asking me to meet and consider having sex with other couples. The idea is very tempting, and every time we are having sex, we fantasize about another man inside of me while my husband is also fucking me; being sandwiched between two hard men, caressed and kissed by the wife, is amazingly exciting. What should I do? Is that a good idea?”

“My wife and I been married for little over 2 years now and over time our sexual desires and excitement level has diminished to the point that in order to get excited and aroused we watch porn. How can we get back our initial sexual excitement and feelings we use to have for each other?”

Our Advice:

Must never forget that sex takes place between your ears, not between your legs. Meaning that focusing on visual stimulation such as porn movies for arousal is within itself a cry for help. Also porn movies are to say the least unrealistic, degrading and distracting, causing unrealistic and harmful expectations. Lastly having sex, or making love, will obviously requires one‘s full attention for optimum level of intimacy and performance.

Swing, Group Sex, Orgy, Threesome and Foursome, or any other form of sexual configuration must be considered very carefully. Keep in mind that if fantasies are used to fulfill what is missing in one’s real sex life and relationship, they gradually become more of a wish list to attain. Before going through with it and engaging in any one of their sexual fantasies, the couple in question must explore and examine their romantic, intimate and sexual relationship very carefully, closely, to discover and fix all the bugs therein

Unfulfilled and unresolved sexual expectations cause resentments. - Resentments buildup shall destroy any and all relationships in time. It would come a time where the person seek the live out the fantasy with or without her / his partner.

Any sexual acts, requests, conditions and means of performance between lovers has to be done willingly and happily, without any sense of guilt, obligations and or expectations, what so ever.

One must learn to treat one’s lover as an absolute equal and always have an intelligent and unambiguous conversation with her / him about what makes all involved happy, excited and satisfy in all aspects of life not just sexual interactions.

Honest and unambiguous communications creates a lasting bridge between friends, particularly lovers, connecting and bring them together, closer and closer, the more you talk about your desires and her / his likes and dislikes.

Porn movies are to say the least unrealistic, addictive, degrading and distracting, causing unrealistic and harmful expectations. - Having sex, or making love requires one‘s full attention for optimum level of intimacy and performance. - Never forget that sex takes place between your ears, not between your legs.

Healthy, incredible and highly pleasurable sex requires the following criteria: honest and unambiguous communication, mutual respect, trust, surrender, physical and emotional intimate touch and connection, in that order, for achieving glorious sex every time!