Blow Jobs, or Fellatio

- By Christy Goldstein - Erotic Shop Sex and Relationship Coach / Counselor

We all know men love blow jobs, or they are sometimes called fellatio. But knowing how to do it right is something women have struggled to master. I am going to give you a few tips on giving a great blow job to keep your man happy and keep him running back for more.

I have always been a fan of the blow job, but I do have an oral fixation so it has come naturally to me and a lot of women have oral fixations which normally makes it easier for them to master as well. I like to do blow jobs especially in the morning because most men have morning hard on and not enough time to go with full on sex. So to keep your man thinking about you all day long a morning blow job is a great way to accomplish that!

Blow jobs can be very hard to master if you have a gag reflex; plus you have to worry about teeth placement and multitasking with your hands as well. With girls that want to practice on something else other than a penis; to try to perfect it you can use a banana to help with your gag reflex and for the licking part try using a an ice cream cone or a Popsicle.

I focus on the tip of the head and underneath the shaft. If you swirl your tongue and suck around their opening of their external urethral orifice, which is where their semen comes out for those that don't know that word, they will start bunching up quickly with their abs and legs. This and underneath their shaft is their most sensitive spots. While you are doing this use your hands.

Some men even like to have their balls sucked and possibly a finger in their ass while you are giving them head. But not all men are like this. This is something you will have to slowly go into, because they may never have had it done before and so go in slowly see their reaction if they are enjoying it continue on!

Then there is the age old question spit or swallow. Some when they are so aroused they continue to come for a moment and anymore sucking or playing with them will make it feel uncomfortable or too much to handle. So depending on the man stick to the tip of the head while they start to come and you will be able to tell when to stop.

Blow jobs are loved by all men and if you can perfect it you will be able to keep them happy through out the day while they are thinking about that morning with you. If you are doing it right they will be pleasured quickly and be able to continue their day if it's in the morning. Now if it's in the evening give them time to recover and then go for round two but this time men going down on you!